take me and lead me

sometimes we just lose sight of things.

people just lose sight of things.

like when its time to simply let certain things go. we don't

i give you a scenario.

i loved this guy, he loved me too.

note the past tense.

but he loves someone else now. someone of the same sex

apparently he goes both ways which in layman terms is a bisexual.

ok, i have three options.

1. i flare up and scream cheat.

2. i hide in my own hermit shell and wallow in self-pity.

3. to get on with life and wish them well.

you see, there are options in this case.

whether you choose 1,2 or 3 its your choice.

but if you choose 2 den dun channel your anger and hurt to people close to you.

it's not as though these people owe you a living for that.

im not trying to be cruel or unsympathetic.

but think, life is so short.

you really just wana be a freaking hermit crab and hurt all your life?

so wad if love hurts you this time round.

it's not as if your life is simply surrounded with love.

oh yes, you can hate yourself or hate the world or simply hate everyone around you.

you can, if that's your choice.

or you can haul your pretty ass off your comfort zone and stop feeling sorry for yourself!

cos this wont kill you.

stop feeling as if e whole world owes you a life.

if there are so many out there who can survive rape and death of loved ones.

i dun see how it's impossible to survive a broken heart.

seriously, character determines fate.

feeling sorry isnt a good option at all.