human nature

sometimes i just wonder e nature of a human being.. are we all selfish by nature or it's an err of judgment that causes e hurt & pain?

did we set out to hurt on purpose or it's just a self-defense mechanism? you know how e saying goes that onlookers have better opinions on a situation than e people involved in e situation.. honestly i can't agree more cos onlookers are more impartial & not blinded by e emotions involved. of course no judgment is being passed, just matter of opinions being discussed & wishing for a solution that solves e root of e problem or at least minimize e hurt.

i'm tired of all e drama that has been going on honestly and i just wana step out of it and steer clear of it all.. dun get me wrong, it's not that i no longer care it's just that caring too much really is draining & hurting. if i can't change e way a person think/feel/act then maybe it's time to change my perception of things..

i'm so thankful of e group of friends i have, my constant support & people who shares e same principles/morals/values :) people who keeps me anchored & sane when everyone/everything else is in chaos..

thank God :)